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In Memoriam

For Lee.

Yitgadal v’yitkadash shemai raba . . .

Great and holy is your great Name
in this world you created by your will!
May your true reign begin
in our lifetime,
in our days,
in the lives of all who Struggle—
swiftly—
soon!

Let your great Name be blessed
for all ages to come—
blessed, praised, glorified, exalted,
extolled, honored, lifted up, lauded
be the Name of the Holy One,
blessed be you,
far beyond all blessings
and hymns and praises and consolations
that are spoken in the world.

Let great peace descend on us from the heavens!
Let life be renewed for us and for all who Struggle!
You who make peace in the heavens,
make peace for us.

Make peace for all who Struggle.

This translation of the Kaddish is from the blog, Notes from the Dreamtime, written by Craig R. Smith.  I found it this morning  when I was daytripping through the blogosphere.  He's taken a few liberties in his translation with which I concur. 


Lee and me last summer celebrating my 60th birthday.  Thanks for coming and celebrating with me, buddy. 

I miss you so much already that it hurts.

Happy Cinqo de Mayo

Isn't it nice that America gives each of its ethnic groups their very own drinking holiday?  For Mexican-Americans, it's cinqo de Mayo, the day that the French Army of Emperor Maximilian was defeated by the forces of General Ignacio Zaragoza. In Mexico, it's a minor national holiday. In America, it's an opportunity to drink a lot of tequila. In fact, I think the holiday as it's celebrated in the U.S. is the result of a marketing campaign by Cuervo tequila.

Having said that, of course I'm celebrating.  But then, of course, I pretty much celebrate all holidays, minor and major, of all cultural groups in the U.S.  That's the plus size of being multi-cultural.  Mardi gras, St. Patrick's Day, Columbus Day, Canada Day, July 4th, Texas Independence Day, Crawfish Festival, Rice Festival, Cotton Festival, Save the Salamander Festival.  You probably have one or two of your own.

On Saturday I attended a party in Concord given by a same-sex couple whom I did not know, Tim and Mark.  I was joined in this celebration by at least 100 others equally intent on celebrating this important holiday.  There was a tequila slide carved out of a slab of ice.  The annointee sits at the bottom of the slide which has about a 45 degree angle, while someone pours a shot of tequila into the top of the crevice and by the time it gets to the annointee it's cold.  Of course, I tried it.  I actually tried it four or five times just to make sure I got it.  Boy, did I get it.  The tequila being poured was the top shelf variety, and it sure was good.  There was a huge amount of food, all with a Mexican theme, but not all good.  Enough of it was good, but the chocolate cookies made with jalapenos were a bit much.

Today a bunch of my twisted friends are taking over my neighborhood bar for a Mexican-themed party.  I'm taking pictures at that one.  I do not have words to adequately describe this bunch of desperadoes, but let me say this, they are all desperate and they are all characters.

On an unrelated subject, I have a stalker.  Aren't I special?  He's a tired old guy who hates me passionately.  I'm not sure why he hates me, but he sure does.  He has a blog that is devoted to besmirching my character.  I have been called every name in the book.  Bless his heart.  It must be a terrible thing to be consumed by hate.  Like the old poem goes, he is to be more pitied than censured.  I have no intention of linking to his site.  It's easy enough to find it, just google my name.  Be sure to say hi for me.

Knowing that someone is stalking you, going through your garbage, reading each word you write, hoping for a crumb with which to smear you, causes one to go more slowly and be more cautious.  As a result of my stalker, I haven't posted much lately.  I thought I'd give him more time to go back and read every post I've ever made.  He looks for contradictions of which there are many.  He is titillated by anything Gay, and you know with me, there's plenty of that, too.  He has widely distributed pictures of me wearing a dress thinking that somehow that diminishes me.  Sad, huh?  It's also funny, because I think it's a fabulous picture of me.  I look good!  When he first started attacking me, I was going to put a bayou curse on him, but I realized someone had already beat me to it.  My stalker is old, fat, ugly, bald, impotent, has diabetes and a bad heart.  What was there left for me add?  This, and only this:  I WILL DANCE ON YOUR GRAVE, MOTHERFUCKER.  And that goes for the cow you run with, too, you know, the one that smells like an ashtray.

Now then, where was I?  Oh yeah, having fun with friends.  Happy cinqo de Mayo, or as we say here in California, happy 4th of May, too!

I don't know, you tell me.

Discussing Health Care

Kathy (http://stevenbell.blogspot.com/) poses a serious question and it deserves a serious answer.  Frist the question:

You seem like a smart person. I don't understand why you and others, who clearly see how our government screws up so many things so badly, can possibly support government health care.

I don't want the Republicans to fix health care, because they can't. The Democrats sure as hell can't do it either and Hilary's health plan is one of the scariest things I imagine when I think of hte possibility of her getting into office.

If you haven't faced a serious health condition first hand, I think it's difficult to see how completely people have been screwed over by government health plans.

This subject comes up frequently on one of the pediatric brain tumor groups I help moderate. Hundreds of members, from all over the world, including from some of the countries we hold up as examples of what a good government-run plan should look like.

So this topic came around recently again, we need a good health plan to take care of us.

Government-sponsored plans are like HMO's, they work great when you don't have a medical condition that's expensive to treat.

But you got to read about Ellen's experience in Canada firsthand. Ellen had metastatic renal cell cancer, even though she lived with it for years, she was considered terminal.

So, when she got a little bump on her face, a metastasis, that could have been removed by a simple outpatient surgery, the government said that terminal patients can't have surgery for metastases, only radiation.

So poor woman ended up puking her guts out for over a month because radiation is cheaper than surgery.

Then there's the matter of antinausea drugs for treatment-related nausea. The good drugs are Zofran (ondansetron), Kytril, Anzamet. Miracle drugs, the nausea is gone with no side effects.

There are also cheap drugs available, benadryl and phenergan for example. Both will knock you flat AND they don't work.

But Canada wouldn't pay for good drugs for Ellen, and when they did, they'd give her something like 3 pills for a month.

Zofran is designed to be given 3 times a day, not 3 times a month.

I know personally over half a dozen families who have crossed the border to the U.S. because MRI's are a scarce resource in Canada, they come over here and pay $2000 so they can get an MRI today instead of in 6 weeks.

One boy I know died waiting for his MRI while the parents fretted over whether or not to pay for an MRI here that they could little afford.

Obviously this is a sore topic with me, but it's the truth. I may have to pay more than I otherwise would, but I could take either one of my boys down to the ER today and if I screamed long and hard enough, they'd get their MRI before 24 hours had passed.

In Canada, that's not necessarily possible. In my online group, this experience has been echoed over and over, in the U.K., in Australia.

I don't want Hilary or any other government idiot telling me what medical care I can or can't have. The lives of my kids is way too precious to place in her hands.

Besides, where will we go for MRI's when she gets her hands on our health plan?

So very many things about our nation's health are screwed up right now, but placing our lives in the hands of a screwed-up government and taking away our free choice about medical decisions is not the way to go.

And that's what I think about that.

To begin with, Kathy, I don’t believe Sen. Clinton’s universal healthcare coverage is based on the Canadian model.  And because it isn’t, I’m not sure what the relevance of paragraphs 7 through 17 is, and not being a Clinton fan, I’m not interested in defending it to you or anyone else.  Of all of the Democrats in the race, only Dennis Kucinich has proposed a single-payer system similar to the other western democracies.  (Note:  of all of the western democracies, the U.S. is the only one that doesn’t have some system of guaranteed healthcare for its citizenry.)

Let’s talk about the “superior” American system.  Don’t have any serious, long-term problems in the U.S. without insurance.  We may have the best cancer care industry in the world, but there is a buy-in price that eliminates a huge number of people who will die sooner rather than later because of the inequality of care.  Sure, we have a few general hospitals that offer service to the poor on a first come, first served basis.  As a Christian, do you feel that your responsibility to the poor is satisfied with King-Drew in L.A.?

I agree that we have been poorly served in this country by our government.  In 1993, the Republican Party and its allies among the Democrats, completely shot down any attempt at healthcare reform.  They did not offer an alternative to Mrs. Clinton’s plans.  They just shot her plan down.  In the past dozen years, they have offered nothing, save one boondoggle of a pharmaceutical plan which helps seniors pay for overly expensive medicines, but which benefits the pharmaceutical industry much more than it benefits individuals.  I give the Republicans complete credit on that one.  They controlled both houses of Congress and the Presidency.  It is their plan, and it’s a very expensive plan.

You seem to imply that not having any sort of government guarantee of healthcare is by far more beneficial to having any sort of government plan.  That’s always easier for someone who has health insurance to say.  But let’s look at what we do have for a moment.  Do you think having private insurance guarantees you treatment?  Ever have to wait in line for a kidney?  I believe a young woman in Southern California died recently because her private carrier considered the recommended treatment to be experimental. 

If it weren’t for government intercession, no one sick in this country would be able to get insurance.  It would fall into the same category as car and homeowners insurance:  you can’t use it but once, because after you’ve used it once, your rates go up disproportionately to the cost to the insurance company.  That’s the free market system without government regulation.

What you seem to fail to grasp is how truly awful the system is in this country.  You’d rather take potshots at Hillary Clinton than to hold your own political party to any sort of standard for anything.  Your political party has not participated in the debate over healthcare.  Your party instead has given us a war in Iraq which has cost us close to half a TRILLION dollars thus far.  If that money were spent here, Kathy, we could guarantee everyone in this country exemplary healthcare.

The overwhelming majority of people in this country have indicated their desire for the government to make healthcare more accessible to everyone.  It is the function of government to respond to the voiced demands of its population. 

I’m personally very tired of hearing Republicans scream “socialized medicine” each time an attempt is made to make healthcare universally accessible.  There are much scarier things about which we should worry.  It’s too bad Republicans weren’t screaming and demanding “decent, honest government” as their President and Congress screwed this country these past seven years. 

If you don’t like what the Democrats are proposing, propose something better.  Work with them rather than just simply attacking various plans because you have a visceral dislike for one of the Democratic candidates for President.  Universal health care is going to happen in this country in some form or another whether you like it or not, whether you approve of it or not.  If you participate in the discussion perhaps your experience and insight will help to guide the planning of the system we will eventually have.

Meanwhile, I found a site where Americans are begging for help.  It sure makes me feel like our system is superior to the Canadians, the English, Australians, New Zealanders, the French, Germans, all of the Scandinavian countries.  Yep, it sure does make me feel superior:  http://www.google.com/Top/Society/People/Requesting_Help/Medical_Needs/

Personally, I’ve been dealing with HIV for over 20 years now.  I, too, have some experience with healthcare delivery in this country, and like you, I too have strong opinions.  Unlike you, however, I don’t blame those who would seek to reform our system for our bad system.  I do blame those who only know how to oppose change for the inability of our system to improve.

You Want Proof of Global Warning?

How's this?  A rabid bear was killed while trying to steal the air conditioner from the home of some goat herders in Maryland.  Found nearby was a 300-foot extension cord.  Okay, I made up the part about the extension cord, but just how did the bear think it was going to power the air conditioner?

Goat herders in Maryland?  Who knew?

Another detail in the story that bears notice?  The bear weighed only 130 pounds.  I'm betting the woman in question weighed about twice that.  I don't know that, I'm just suspicious of goat herders.

Lady Bird Johnson

Ladybird A great lady has passed.  Claudia Alta Taylor, known to the world as Lady Bird Johnson, has passed away.  I had the great pleasure of knowing Mrs. Johnson back in the 1970s in Austin, Texas.  She was a great lady.  I knew her because of another great lady, Mary Kaltman, who ran the White House food services for the Johnsons. In the post-White House years, Mrs. Johnson invested in a restaurant with Mary where I was privileged to work.

I will forever think of her and bless her name when I drive across Texas and see the many bluebonnets she encouraged Texans to plant.  When I notice the absence of billboards, I'll remember her work in keeping them regulated. 

My condolences to her two daughters, seven grandchildren and many, many great-grandchildren.  We were blessed to have her for so many years.

Finding Inner Peace

There is a comfort in hanging out with family in an area that's been your home for 200 years.  Maybe it's just context.  Being down here helps me to understand the various forces that went into the shaping of my character and values. 

Squirrels Go Wild!

One very annoyed squirrel went apeshit and attacked a school in San Jose filled with humans.

A squirrel went on the attack in a San Jose elementary school Wednesday, bloodying an 11-year-old girl and a parent in a slashing, biting assault and injuring a second grown-up before making its escape.

. . . . Two parent chaperones were standing in the room when the squirrel ran in and clawed its way up one of the adult's legs, Ector said.

"They were trying to get it off and another parent was trying to assist," he said. "In the process, both were bitten. One was nipped on the fingertip and scratched on the arm, and the other parent was bitten on the arm."

Finally, the squirrel jumped off the mom, did a loop around the classroom, ran out the door and jumped on the 11-year-old student as she walked by. She was bitten on the arm as well, Ector said.

The student and one of the parents were bitten hard enough to draw blood, police Sgt. Nick Muyo said.  SFGate

And we made fun of Jimmy Carter when that rabbit attacked him in the boat.  These animals are up to something, I tell you.  They're up to something.  Y'all be careful out there, h'hear?

UPDATE:  A loyal reader who goes by the moniker, Cybergrannie, sent me this link.  Apparently, others have noticed that our civilization is in danger from those furry tailed rats. 

A Tragedy Most Profound

Today we are all Hokies from Virginia Tech.

What a bitch!

Who the fuck cares if Maya Angelou used the wrong word in her tribute to Molly Ivins? 

Andrew Sullivan never misses an opportunity to wallow in a gutter, any gutter.  He thinks he looks better smeared with pigshit.

My saying it doesn't make it so.  He does that all by himself.